people ask why fall in love when being hurt is a certainty? my answer? it makes me feel alive! because whether I feel the greatest hurt or the greatest love... there is sheer bliss or flood of tears... i am on top of the world or at the bottom of the done chain... it has made my heart beat fervently. i tell you, i will rather fall in love over and over again than to blend in with millions of heartless zombies who have resolved to play safe.

--- inday's advice to ederlyn who does not want to fall in love ---

i hope you still remember our friend inday. she has been so popular in text messages nowadays. phenomenal as she may be, i think she is so right with her advice to ederlyn. likewise, i share with you this quote to lighten up your burden. you fall in love, you get hurt, it is all because you are alive. if you are mad, then get mad. do not keep it all inside because it might swallow you whole.

it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never finding the courage to let the person know how you feel.

this is very true my friend. love is an active entity. it is always in motion and not simply implied. the person may not reciprocate the feeling but at least you have given the best of you to show your true emotions. never assume of what the person knows. speak up and be heard. things may go wrong and result in ways you never expect them to be, the most important thing is you love. right?

now here it comes, the hardest part of all
unchain my heart that's holding on
how do I start to live my life alone?
guess I'm just learning,
learning the art of letting go.

--- the art of letting go by mikaila ---

finally, i just want to say good luck to you. i know it is not an easy task to simply forget everything that has happened. but in time, i am sure that you will realize that the hurt is worth the experience. let it be a lesson learned to become a better and stronger person. you are going to make it for sure. definitely! like what you always say, 'it is in the name!'

your love adviser,

XonXon

p.s. 'i will rather have you in my daydream than have you in my real world where i know i cannot have you and you cannot love me in return. at least, there is one place in my life where i can keep you and you are mine.'